We live in a country that offers an abundance of freedom!
We all have had those moments in life we experience for the first time that offer us a new found feeling of independence and empowerment. As early as childhood we experience independence. Choosing a new adventure or activity that opens up another part of us and who we are. We choose these new experiences on our own and when we are ready.
Like the first time we rode a bike without training wheels. Do you remember the feeling when you first dove off the high diving board? Can you remember that first day at your first job? Those moments are more than just memories – they remind us of how we push pass the fear of intimidation. Something deep within us, conscious or not, whispered to us that we were ready. And that our efforts had earned us this moment to embrace and appreciate.
Taking a leap of faith is an empowering feeling. Some leaps change your life forever. As we mature and grow, sometimes we begin to take for granted the freedom we have to try something new or make a change. It could be because we had some life experiences that left us confused, afraid or fearful. Maybe you felt too intimidated to start a new business or try something different.
Every day we run into obstacles or challenges that allow doubt to creep in. When we remember that feeling doubtful and intimidated is just a state of mind, then we can move forward into an unfamiliar new event with courage and faith.
Easier said than done right? Here are a few tips that can help you to overcome feelings of intimidation and doubt:
It can help to recall those moments back in childhood when you felt brave and ready to take that leap of faith. Take some time to think back to one of those memories. How old were you? What were you feeling before the event? Nervous? Anxious? How did you feel after the event? Exhilarated? Excited? Brave? Confident? Write these thoughts down and refer back to them when you are feeling intimidated, nervous or apprehensive.
Stop the negative thoughts and inner chatter. Thoughts like “I'm not smart enough to start my own business” will increase your doubt and lower your confidence. Awareness is key. Once you are aware of these negative thoughts you can turn them around into a positive thought. Focus on “I know when I concentrate on a new endeavor my efforts will help me reach my goal.”
Surround yourself with those people who truly want to offer positive support and encouragement. You will know when you are in the presence of positive people because you will feel uplifted and inspired – Even for hours, days or months. You will also know when you are in the presence of someone who is a negative influence because you will feel emotionally and mentally drained. Your energy level will feel low when you are around them and even after your encounter.
Remember that doubt is just a state of mind. Recall those moments in life when you had complete confidence. Embrace your freedom to choose something new and different. Seek that new adventure, push past the fear of intimidation today and go for it!
Which moments in your life stand out to you when you had the courage to take a leap of faith? Share your memories of when you were brave and independent.
Most of all, celebrate the freedom you enjoy every day!
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